why does libra man keep coming back
It broke me but I understood.. Any thoughts? Hi, about 2 weeks ago my now ex-boyfriend broke up with me after 8 months. He had spent the last 4 months and countless hours flattening it out using a spoon to widen the edge, drilling out the middle rounding the edges and polishing it. Start to dig yourself out of this hole as soon as possible by letting him know how you feel and telling him it is stressing you out. He abandoned me in a cowardly way. Its not always about cheating…lying etc…some people are just scared…have baggage to go through….or plain and simple have to love themselves first. I am talking from my own experience. ….NEVER EVER TAKE YOUR EX BACK WHEN HE LEFT YOU ONES FOR SOMEONE ELSE ……its just question of time when he will start to look and text other girls …….Remember guys are weaker then women ….and they get scared …they dont like to be alone …just a grown up man- wise man can life with him selfs ….To everyone who was left behind just because your ex thought he -she found someone better ….please have a faith…be strong and keep walking …there isnt anything behind you …just past …they hurt you ones and they will hurt you again and again ……good luck …:-))). I wasn’t even being that clingy in our relationship honestly, I double or triple texted at most and all I would honestly ask was that he make time for me. How to Communicate With a Libra Man. It is not a good feeling to spend a fun weekend with a guy you’ve been seeing for 8 months and then he doesn’t call all week long. Then he has no courage to say so. Follow. What do you want? Have a wonderful day! When she found out about me things took a turn for the worse. Taking someone back after they broke up with you for someone else is like reloading the gun and giving it back to him to shoot you in the back once more. But at the same time when I see him online on Facebook and the fact that he takes so long to text back makes me think now that he’s just not interested… He sounds like a huge loser and user. NOOOooo. Many guys will not admit this, but the truth is that every time a photo of you pops up, it will drive him mad. I contacted him to tell him the phone was on. I’m pretty sure he’s going through a difficult time right now as well because I know him so well… I don’t really understand his choice and I’m actually a bit worried about him… I wonder if someone of you can give me some advice. Should I take him seriously? Ok let me go back on track. I felt extremely confused… I responded asking him what makes him think that. He is stubborn in his deciosions. Figured I would hear from him by Monday. I’ve improved myself during this silent period and I don’t feel as needy or insecure as before. What woman wants a man who is driving her crazy? With that being said, more than likely he’s just not getting any. idk what to do.. torn. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem. I just Don understand why his decision was with her. He has apologized and acknowledged his wrong doings to me. Keep reading to learn as much as you can about this confusing and difficult to … I can’t see him just leaving me because he doesn’t want to be in a relationship. He started acting a bit distant. Obviously, they pushed me away. This is what happened between my ex & I. It sounds like he was confused and didn’t really know what he wanted. Starting over again comes with all sorts of risks. I have been split up with my ex boyfriend for some time now but I still think about him. My son’s father and then husband had abandoned both of us years before, and this man was also only the second man that I have been with in over 20+ years. Okay, so I was in a relationship for a few months, I was madly in love with him. I invited him over & he came over on the 26th of November and we had s**. If he decides to believe your ex over you, the ex is a real dirtbag and the new guy does not have the sense to see that he is being manipulated by your ex. So what are the chances him coming back. Feeling so insecure. Said I don’t want to stop talking to him just because of that. He also views my stories in snapchat which isn’t any indication that he misses me but at least he does want to see what or how I’m doing. How long does it take for this guy to reply? He knows exactly what he’s looking for in a partner and when he can’t find it, he moves on — probably even more quickly than most people. Probably the reason he split up with the wife. Because that would surely boost his already inflated ego. They’re all excited at the beginning – making you feel ‘you’re the one’. I was very attached to the man and tried to figure out what was going on inside his head. Or am I just being paranoid and there is something more to it? The rule is, when a guy says “I need space” or breaks up with you, you MUST GIVE HIM SPACE. Anywhere In The Atlantic ocean side. I want him to come back because I miss him so much. I had never felt so close to a guy and generally just at peace with him. No, he doesn’t actually need an ego boost, but he does appreciate someone noticing that he works hard at his job and is putting in effort in his relationships and friendships. But of course I couldn’t. I went to school an hour later he texted me and said he wanted to meet up and then called me and said he wanted to meet up and I said I was at school and that later tonight we could talk he told me dinner time and texted me saying he was sorry for being a dick but that he wanted to put this behind us and he would pick me up. No one deserves this. Absolutely crazy about him. is it cause hes too afraid of girls that in his mind if he come, she wont be there, so he avoid that happening by him not hanging with his girl? Always thought of what he can do to make it better. So now I can’t help but to assume the worse. We started dating within two weeks he told me he did not want to just date me he wanted to be in a relationship with me. At first he was into it because you were different from his last relationships but then he realized when he got in the relationship he wasn’t all that into you. As soon as the relationship ended, he was a bit sad but then realized he was single again. We can always pick up like we haven’t been through life, people, situations separate. I’m 41 years old. Sometimes I try to let him in peace 2 or 3 days and then I come back to my home. He needs to provide you w a home, career, college ba or master degree, car and insurance. I think some space would do you some good to allow some time to review how it feels not not be with him. I would try to get clarity from him on this. After the breakup (it’s now been 4 months) we didn’t speak for a month and then we met up a couple of times to just catch up, sometimes (rarely) he would reach out to ask how I was doing. he might miss me . Why is this? I found out that him and this girl that he relinked up with used to talk and then they just suddenly stop talking. Or his heart is in this relationship but is letting me go for something better as how he always feels. The memories will bombard him and he will want to start over and create new memories with you. Do you think there is any chance for us? Things progressed, we shared, we laughed we cried, we played…it was nothing short of amazing. Our family is intact again and I will be forever grateful. Once we moved out and got our own spot we still argued on and off sometimes more than usual over stupid stuff like cleaning, putting dirty cloths away etc. Please, read this not written pefect way story cause there is all what I feel. like is it cause hes that nervous or too shy to like hang with her so he make up little lies that he cant make it? He came home for 3 days labor day weekend and we decided we were going to take the next step and move in together and we went apartment shopping and everything was great. Only thing is that I had gotten another job (same county government organization), just different location nearby. He broke down and cried and then said he was going to fix this. Of course I cried a couple times after that night because I was so sad because I liked him so much and I told myself I will never sleep with a coworker again. We kept talking for much of the year but suddenly he said we shouldnt do this anymore – I think because he was hurting too. Does ignoring a libra man work - 1 year. 2 years in we were engaged, and 4 years in he seemed to change his mind. He contact me a year in half later, to apologize what he said to me and I forgive him. Over and over. So he’s looking at your Facebook page. On Friday one of my friends texted me and said he was out with his friends drinking and I got really sad because his friends were more important to him than to see me. How can he get over that quickly? Eight months is a lot of time. If he’s constantly coming back to you, it’s because you are thrilling him like no other. After some initial exploring on his own, he will soon discover that your unique qualities and strengths that he was originally attracted to can’t be replicated that easily. Now he has plans to go to the beach for a week with his friend and her daughter. I am not reacting, nor am I expecting, I am merely grateful for the kindness. This is why it's also a good idea for women to date more than one man at a time. In my mind, I have accepted that he wants out and have started exercising and pursuing things I want to do in life and now all of sudden he is being extra nice to me? He didn’t want a relationship. He also added that he felt my religion was not as important to me as it is to him. After we were finished he asked me where we were going from here & asked him if there was anything I could do to fix this. He’s coming back in 2 days to start helping me with work on my electric problem, but I agreed to pay him for his time. I decided to text the guy again today. I love him and I wish all of this didn’t even happen. So throughout him being in boot camp he wrote really cute genuine things. We were both each others’ longest relationship. He added that he is right win conservative and he felt my family and friends would not like that. We were suffering a lot being in a distance relationship. More then often he’s kicked some things out of his life that he knows you don’t like. Remember that you were his “go to person”. I am so depressed I have lost so much weight. Anyway girls, if you are being dumped you better forget the guy, it’s his loss and make sure to find a nice guy and let time tell your ex he was wrong. I disagreed & we spoke a bit about it & mid conversation he said he had to go & we’ll speak later. Social life. I thought he would be a different person and mature. He appreciates that you support him in anything he does and the fact that you’re so patient with him when he’s acting hot and cold doesn’t go unnoticed around him. A Libra man can often get caught up in the romance of new relationships before really settling into it, so when you first date him, he might be all about the … we are both 20. We loved each other. He can’t get enough of you because he realizes that there’s no one even remotely like you. My current boyfriend and I were watching movies at his home when I received a text message from my ex-boyfriend. I did that, but the person did not help me much. Please help me. I understand what you mean about getting older and being alone. Met a guy and fell in love with him instantly. He is NOT a real man. Hi Mr. Perspective, thank you for your response I figured I might have been overthinking the whole situation. Guy number 2 is steady and straight ahead. Then he still want to come to my dinner. He’ll wonder how you’re doing without him and rehearse the what if’s in his head over and over again. It won’t leave you at least. We reached our one year anniversary in October 2014 and we later broke up in March of 2015. He said he needed to figure things out etc. There is someone else, but I think the romance has died (so he explained). Do you think he might miss me? We were both in sexless marriages, but otherwise happily married (no children). My friends say that he will eventually come back. He constantly told me he just needs to space to think and figure things out and that if I stick with him that’s all he needs. I started going by his cube (near mine) when mostly everyone had left for the day – so I could talk to him. He said that his doubts had been going on for months, that he just didn’t feel the same. It was a callous thing for him to do. X, Go on your own time girl! With all of that being said he IS very immature. He’s back now and of course I still love him, but I’m scared he’s just back after he had his fun this summer. Fortunately, understanding more about the traits and characteristics of a guy's zodiac sign can help you to figure the puzzle out. If you really love the guy and he says “little by little” we we get further apart, ask him exactly what he means by that. I hardly ever did, but now?? He knows that his problems with commitment can be a headache (especially if he’s around one moment and gone the next, but having someone like you make him feel less weird about it makes you special. Is he manipulating me again (though I do not think that he was aware of it, I do think that for a lot of the relationship, he did do this, but then, I am no victim, I allowed him to do so, eventhough at the time I was also not aware of this. We ended mutually because I had to move away for a year and when I was away we still messaged and we knew we missed each other etc. So I must give him what he want. But then he even let me put my clothes back into “my drawer” at his house, and when I went there he still had the photo of us up on his night stand. I didn’t understand. They miss how they were treated when I was with them. He started messaging me and we really hit it off quickly. I mean a man who cannot spell or write properly. He told me he wants to see me again in a few weeks. I smell a liar. I am 29, he is 33, we met and fell so in love, crazy, passionate amazing love. I heard it hundreds times lastly. It’s sad to say, but I have lots of experiences on this subject. I believe he is now in a rebound relationship or maybe not, I don’t know what feelings there are from his side for his new girlfriend, what I find it strange is that he dumped me and he does not want to be in contact with me anymore, after previously he was saying he still loves me, misses me etc. He left me without telling anything, Just completely blocked me out of his life 3 days after telling he would like to marry me. My bf left me for another girl and then after some days he came back and regrets. See how you are suffering now? This makes him want to make more memories with you at any cost. He said they are only friends too. I hair wanted to know what was going on. I havent completely firgiven him. And I really miss my current ex boyfriend a lot please help me Like when he was over the first time he moved out his mom asked why are you over her house. I didn’t…He went into the shower I left. It was 2 weeks after me and him literally broke up that he made it official with her but kept lieing to me saying he doesn’t have a girlfriend when he did. He now knows what he likes and doesn’t like. You sound like a nice woman. Crying my eyes out and screaming his name. We were together everyday, all day like basically inseparable literally. He is literally the definition caring. After 4 months he has turned my phone back on. Once you stop putting energy in him. They have good jobs, nice homes, plenty of money, but do not want to engage in an adult relationship. He is taking advantage of you. This is also what happened to me. All he really cares about is finding someone he can call his best friend and his other half. If he just needs some space, that’s one thing. I told him I’m not on birth control and he should use condoms when we start having sex. Ok we know that after a break up more often than not a libra man will come back. This is a core value that you must align on. He has done this to me about 3 times now and I am at wits end. :/ but how tell me ??? Why should you have anything less than a man who can make up his mind to be with you and do it? Our relationship has always been a good one we fought but not about serious things. It feels like he is letting go this relationship as what i thought i would when i clicked on “send” button with all my feelings and disappointment. Say something shocking or surprising. one day out of the blue call me on the phone and broke up with me. He has not done it. Ok so me and my boyfriend were together for 4 years and living together for 3 years. Respect yourself, respect what the two of you have had. I don’t usually do this but I think I can give it a try and open up a little bit. He’s got along great with my kids, he’s slowly started stepping into a role model for them (biological father is absent). I have to ask – why does the guy believe some other GUY and not even ask ME, the woman he has been having an intimate relationship with? I’ve talked to him 3 times since we broke up and I’m trying not to be emotional and needy and act desperate but its hard he was my other half and me being in this apartment makes me think of him. We still talked but not like before and the few times we saw each other ( we are both really busy) I felt like he wasn’t enjoying it too much.. If he cannot be fair, you will really get to your wits end. My suspicions was confirmed when his girlfriend confronted me by phone. I’m wondering if he’ll change his mind and come back….Help. Tried to contact him and ask what happened and got to know he doesn’t want me anymore. So you should go and experience it the way you want to without him telling you how to. Your connection feeds his ego. He messaged me at like midnight saying, ” I don’t think we should be together anymore. He looked at me and didn’t say a word, not even an apology for being a lying, low-life piece of garbage!! Even though he didnt have a job, apt n all that stuff i still supported him financially and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. We would argue a lot about that, his priorities.. which I regret because now looking back I should have been far more supportive of him. Plain and simple, this life is too short to be wasting your time on second chances. You said it well. We went out and we got something to eat then he wanted me to go back to his place. You sound afraid and distrustful.. In March he called me and told me he was coming home on a 6 month probation period and that he was so excited to be home. I asked him if we were to get married did he want separate accounts or a family account. I’m actually curious and would like to know, thank you, Men play mind games all the time, I don’t. The Libra man likes a woman who’s honest, expressive and assertive, but also one who can keep her calm and doesn’t cry too often because he’s a seeker of balance and harmony. He left for another woman, the third since 1996 that I know of, but it’s very painful. I left no room for dissatisfaction. After holidays I came back to my country, he stayed but he was visiting me every few months, he couldnt wait to see me. Was he just planning to be my boyfriend forever. Now to answer your question of “Why do men come back after no contact,” I want to explain a simple element of human nature. We haven’t talked since I broke up with him. Update: at day 3 of NC he texted and said he was coming by to pick up some mail he needed. Any man who listens to another man’s story about you does not have any faith in you. This past time he had been complaining about always fighting, and wanted to break up. I’m wondering if there’s any chance for us to go back…. So I told the girl to back off. Hi Britt, You have done the right thing. He seems genuine…. My blood was boiling with fury!!! I have been with this guy for 16years…he lost his job and all he had and I was there for him through thick and thin….he had to move back to another state where he is originally from for a better job…so we communicated long distance daily…..he visited every Christmas and finally got an apartment…. I too have an adult (25) disabled child (MS). When I was young, and sex occurred too soon (within 2 months), yeah, the guy would bail within a year. She randomly then asked him to leave her alone, after which they stopped talking. I begged and pleaded with him. He did the same for me. The infections are usually caused by Escherichia coli, a bacterium that lives in the intestinal system. He is 27 years of age and has a stable job, yet he struggles to save money. We’ve been together for 1 year and a half and we broke up only 1 month ago. If that does not work, then the new guy is just as much of a jerk as the ex. I honestly can’t think of any woman sticking around with him for a long-term relationship. Don’t let that happen. I was in a relationship with my ex for 2 years. The relationship got rocky because of his family, and he became overly stressed. Calls me a few times asking for like something pointless and then never would show up to get it so. Someone who is chosing women based on an apartment and car is a user. When I came home I met him and he brought up old memories and even mentioned his parents asking if we were getting back together. The friend one, puts so much effort in messaging & emailing me thru-out the day, the other one, who’s flirted w/ me, touched me on arm, & later hugged, kissed me, I’ve expressed I like him and returned & enjoyed our physical contact. He might secretly have a thing for you. 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